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Tips for a Better Erotic Sexual Massage

Erotic massage is a best present for your girlfriend. Girls on https://mariadating.com/ think it is a miracle and a vital step before a perfect sex. Some key things here are that such erotic massage can either ruin sex or make your evening unforgettable and bring a new light to orgasms. Let’s find out what may go wrong and how can you make her reach orgasm using massage.

Why the erotic massage does not work?

The thing is most couples make it wrong. Girls firmly believe that all they need to do is to roll all over his back with. Guys believe it is enough to rub her most raised body parts. Both think that they deliver a great pleasure to each other, and the object of strange manipulations pretends he or she enjoys the process indeed. Alas, most of them pretend to enjoy it.

So how to give it right? We have conducted a few simple, but basic rules of erotic massage:

  • Always give a massage first. This serves a perfect thing to use instead of your usual foreplay, which is essential for every woman. In addition, if you enjoy the massage first, you will hardly do anything special after it: you will relax and either will become lazy when it comes to sex or fall asleep.
  • Use the special oils. Massage liquids and fragranced cremes will make the process even more pleasant, make sure the temperature of the oil is not lower than the body temperature or even slightly higher. There exist 1675 options how to heat the oil for a massaging. Here we have the two most common ones:
  • Put a small amount of the oil itself (in a suitable container) in the microwave oven for a few seconds;
  • Before you start blurring the oil over the coveted body of your partner, carefully grind each portion of oil in your palms.
  • Focus on the most pleasant moves. What I am talking about is chest, butt and crotch. But do not forget about legs and feet, either. Trust us, girls like it.
  • Use your hands gradually and smoothly. I mean you should not touch the woman with your mighty palm in the very beginning. It is more interesting and exciting if you play and turn on your partner. Therefore, do not rub her body during the first couple of minutes, but pet her back with your fingers (it should feel gently). Afterward, make your moves more intensive and end up using your whole palms.
  • Do not pretend to be doctor or a professional masseur. Even if you really are a doctor. The essential method used in the erotic foreplay in general lies in making gentle as well as slow moves with your hands. Nothing complicated. Do not set her bones during erotic foreplay. There is nothing sexual about setting bones. Besides, your partner may get hurt. Make sure that your palms are touching the girl's body tightly and smoothly. If your movements are too shy, they will tickle the partner instead.
  • Remember the “alienation zones”. Do not pet her butt, chest and feet – rub them instead. When touching these zones, you can feel free and let your naughty hands show all the passion (within reasonable limits, of course).
  • Perform a massage without interruptions. Even a small few-second-long pause to scratch your nose, kill a fly, and stealthily swallow a steak will weaken the seemingly uninterrupted satisfaction.
  • You will get your dose of relaxation after sex. Only when you see that the girl wants to thank you too, ask her to do you a massage after the most important part. Excitement in women works longer than in men. Hence, she will not feel exhausted after coitus and will gladly give you the massage session.
  • Follow our tips so that you will give her good erotic massage. You can and should practice your skills and you girl will cum in response to your touches. Good luck!